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Ibn 'Abbas : I had been eager to ask 'Umar bin Al-Khattab about the two
ladies from among the wives of the Prophet regarding whom Allah said
'If you two (wives of the Prophet namely Aisha and Hafsa) turn in
repentance to Allah, your hearts are indeed so inclined (to oppose what
the Prophet likes). (66.4) till 'Umar performed the Hajj and I too,
performed the Hajj along with him. (On the way) 'Umar went aside to
answer the call of nature, and I also went aside along with him carrying
a tumbler full of water, and when 'Umar had finished answering the call
of nature, I poured water over his hands and he performed the ablution.
Then I said to him, "O chief of the Believers! Who were the two ladies
from among the wives of the Prophet regarding whom Allah said: 'If you
two (wives of the Prophet) turn in repentance to Allah your hearts are
indeed so inclined (to oppose what the Prophet likes)?" (66.4) He said,
"I am astonished at your question, O Ibn Abbas. They were 'Aisha and
Hafsa." Then 'Umar went on narrating the Hadith and said, "I and an
Ansari neighbor of mine from Bani Umaiyya bin Zaid who used to live in
Awali-al-Medina, used to visit the Prophet in turn. He used to go one
day and I another day. When I went, I would bring him the news of what
had happened that day regarding the Divine Inspiration and other things,
and when he went, he used to do the same for me. We, the people of
Quraish used to have the upper hand over our wives, but when we came to
the Ansar, we found that their women had the upper hand over their men,
so our women also started learning the ways of the Ansari women. I
shouted at my wife and she retorted against me and I disliked that she
should answer me back. She said to me, 'Why are you so surprised at my
answering you back? By Allah, the wives of the Prophet answer him back
and some of them may leave (does not speak to) him throughout the day
till the night.' The (talk) scared me and I said to her, 'Whoever has
done so will be ruined!' Then I proceeded after dressing myself, and
entered upon Hafsa and said to her, 'Does anyone of you keep the Prophet
angry till night?' She said, 'Yes.' I said, 'You are a ruined losing
person! Don't you fear that Allah may get angry for the anger of Allah's
Apostle and thus you will be ruined? So do not ask more from the
Prophet and do not answer him back and do not give up talking to him.
Ask me whatever you need and do not be tempted to imitate your neighbor
(i.e., 'Aisha) in her manners for she is more charming than you and more
beloved to the Prophet ." Umar added,"At that time a talk was
circulating among us that (the tribe of) Ghassan were preparing their
horses to invade us. My Ansari companion, on the day of his turn, went
(to the town) and returned to us at night and knocked at my door
violently and asked if I was there. I became horrified and came out to
him. He said, 'Today a great thing has happened.' I asked, 'What is it?
Have (the people of) Ghassan come?' He said, 'No, but (What has
happened) is greater and more horrifying than that: Allah's Apostle; has
divorced his wives. 'Umar added, "The Prophet kept away from his wives
and I said "Hafsa is a ruined loser.' I had already thought that most
probably this (divorce) would happen in the near future. So I dressed
myself and offered the morning prayer with the Prophet and then the
Prophet; entered an upper room and stayed there in seclusion. I entered
upon Hafsa and saw her weeping. I asked, 'What makes you weep? Did I not
warn you about that? Did the Prophet divorce you all?' She said, 'I do
not know. There he is retired alone in the upper room.' I came out and
sat near the pulpit and saw a group of people sitting around it and some
of them were weeping. I sat with them for a while but could not endure
the situation, so I went to the upper room where the Prophet; was and
said to a black slave of his, 'Will you get the permission (of the
Prophet ) for 'Umar (to enter)?' The slave went in, talked to the
Prophet about it and then returned saying, 'I have spoken to the Prophet
and mentioned you but he kept quiet.' Then I returned and sat with the
group of people sitting near the pulpit. but I could not bear the
situation and once again I said to the slave, 'Will you get the
permission for 'Umar?' He went in and returned saying, 'I mentioned you
to him but he kept quiet.' So I returned again and sat with the group of
people sitting near the pulpit, but I could not bear the situation, and
so I went to the slave and said, 'Will you get the permission for
'Umar?' He went in and returned to me saying, 'I mentioned you to him
but he kept quiet.' When I was leaving, behold! The slave called me,
saying, 'The Prophet has given you permission.' Then I entered upon
Allah's Apostle and saw him Lying on a bed made of stalks of date palm
leaves and there was no bedding between it and him. The stalks left
marks on his side and he was leaning on a leather pillow stuffed with
date-palm fires. I greeted him and while still standing I said, 'O
Allah's Apostle! Have you divorced your wives?' He looked at me and
said, 'No.' I said, 'Allah Akbar!' And then, while still standing, I
said chatting, 'Will you heed what I say, O Allah's Apostle? We, the
people of Quraish used to have power over our women, but when we arrived
at Medina we found that the men (here) were overpowered by their
women.' The Prophet smiled and then I said to him, 'Will you heed what I
say, O Allah's Apostle? I entered upon Hafsa and said to her, "Do not
be tempted to imitate your companion ('Aisha), for she is more charming
than you and more beloved to the Prophet.' " The Prophet smiled for a
second time. When I saw him smiling, I sat down. Then I looked around
his house, and by Allah, I could not see anything of importance in his
house except three hides, so I said, 'O Allah's Apostle! Invoke Allah to
make your followers rich, for the Persians and the Romans have been
made prosperous and they have been given (the pleasures of the world),
although they do not worship Allah.' Thereupon the Prophet sat up as he
was reclining. and said, 'Are you of such an opinion, O the son of
Al-Khattab? These are the people who have received the rewards for their
good deeds in this world.' I said, 'O Allah's Apostle! Ask Allah to
forgive me.' Then the Prophet kept away from his wives for twenty-nine
days because of the story which Hafsa had disclosed to 'Aisha. The
Prophet had said, 'I will not enter upon them (my wives) for one month,'
because of his anger towards them, when Allah had admonished him. So,
when twenty nine days had passed, the Prophet first entered upon 'Aisha.
'Aisha said to him, 'O Allah's Apostle! You had sworn that you would
not enter upon us for one month, but now only twenty-nine days have
passed, for I have been counting them one by one.' The Prophet said,
'The (present) month is of twenty nine days.' 'Aisha added, 'Then Allah
revealed the Verses of the option. (2) And out of all his-wives he asked
me first, and I chose him.' Then he gave option to his other wives and
they said what 'Aisha had said . " (1) The Prophet, ' had decided to
abstain from eating a certain kind of food because of a certain event,
so Allah blamed him for doing so. Some of his wives were the cause of
him taking that decision, therefore he deserted them for one month. See
Quran: (66.4)
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'Abdullah bin Abbas: During the lifetime of Allah's Apostle, the sun
eclipsed. Allah's Apostle offered the prayer of (the) eclipse) and so
did the people along with him. He performed a long Qiyam (standing
posture) during which Surat-al-Baqara could have been recited; then he
performed a pro-longed bowing, then raised his head and stood for a long
time which was slightly less than that of the first Qiyam (and recited
Qur'an). Then he performed a prolonged bowing again but the period was
shorter than the period of the first bowing, then he stood up and then
prostrated. Again he stood up, but this time the period of standing was
less than the first standing. Then he performed a prolonged bowing but
of a lesser duration than the first, then he stood up again for a long
time but for a lesser duration than the first. Then he performed a
prolonged bowing but of lesser duration than the first, and then he
again stood up, and then prostrated and then finished his prayer. By
then the sun eclipse had cleared. The Prophet then said, "The sun and
the moon are two signs among the signs of Allah, and they do not eclipse
because of the death or birth of someone, so when you observe the
eclipse, remember Allah (offer the eclipse prayer)." They (the people)
said, "O Allah's Apostle! We saw you stretching your hand to take
something at this place of yours, then we saw you stepping backward." He
said, "I saw Paradise (or Paradise was shown to me), and I stretched my
hand to pluck a bunch (of grapes), and had I plucked it, you would have
eaten of it as long as this world exists. Then I saw the (Hell) Fire,
and I have never before, seen such a horrible sight as that, and I saw
that the majority of its dwellers were women." The people asked, "O
Allah's Apostle! What is the reason for that?" He replied, "Because of
their ungratefulness." It was said. "Do they disbelieve in Allah (are
they ungrateful to Allah)?" He replied, "They are not thankful to their
husbands and are ungrateful for the favors done to them. Even if you do
good to one of them all your life, when she seems some harshness from
you, she will say, "I have never seen any good from you.' "
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